If you’re new to the dating game or been out of it for a while, here’s a tip that you should keep in mind. If you’re meeting someone for the first time (blind date or otherwise) choose to meet them over coffee. That way you do get to chat but you aren’t stuck with them for an hour or more, especially if you do find that they just aren’t your type.
The way they choose might even help you decide on whether a relationship is worth pursuing. For example, if you’re looking for someone who is decisive, you defintely won’t want to keep seeing someone who takes 30 minutes just to decide on what kind of coffee to drink.
Coffee is well known to inspire conversations. Use your favorite cup of joe to see if you have found a like minded soul. You may be surprised at how fast time will fly and you’ll be very much inclined to meet again, assuming of course he didn’t bore you. Oherwise, just enjoy your delicious cup of coffee. At least it should satisfy your taste buds even if your date is a bust.
[tags] coffee, dating, conversations [/tags]
Originally posted on October 24, 2006 @ 5:56 pm